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Cats and Dogs

I was kind of down and lost for the past few days, but now I’m feeling much better and feel like blogging again. LIFE GOES ON!

There are 3 cats and 3 dogs all living in harmony at my yoga instructor’s place. I was amazed at first because I only saw cats and dogs living together peacefully on TV, but never in real life. They’re all pets of different members of the family, and were bought at different period of time. However, there’s never been fights or mess around the house.
I think it takes a huge responsibility to have a pet. To me having pets is like taking care of your own baby. You need to feed, bathe, play, and even bring them to jabs like bring up a baby. And taking care of 6 pets is even more challenging!
The only thing I hate about going there is the cats can just walk into the room where we have our yoga lessons and wander or laze around. I’m afraid of cat which touches me all of a sudden. I mean its fur makes me feel “geli”! So, I can’t concentrate in my yoga whenever I see any cats around. That’s why I always look around when eating out at coffee shops / stalls with cats around. And I’m worried about fleas also since Twinsmom told me their bites are fierce. My Justin kena before.
Luckily, her family will all move to KL soon, and she’ll move to a new place. That means only one cat will be left behind. Less cats means less fear to me.
Don’t take me wrongly, I have no problems with cats (unless their fur touch me suddenly). But I still prefer dogs.

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My Uncle Passed Away

My mum called this morning, telling me that my uncle has passed away last night. I wrote a blog about him previously.
His family took him home from the hospital, after some surgery but still can’t bring him back. My parents went there last night and my mum said it’s extremely sad seeing his wife holding his hand and refused to let go. She just sat quietly with him for a long time. My uncle’s parents refused to let him go soon, so his funeral will be on Sunday, and they haven’t decided if he’ll be buried or cremated.
I’m sad that he’s leaving us so soon, but when I think of the years he’s been sufferring, I think he’s in peace now. Even though he might be leaving with some griefs since his children are still young, and his family is not as well do as before. They spent a lot on his medication.
Now, I really hope that his elderly parents, wife and children are strong in going thru this.
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My frustration at Work

My kindergarden has just started in January this year. I was under maternity leave, and thus I didn’t go there or know about what’s going on there until I took over in April.
The previous management was extremely lousy, and when I took over, I noticed that the children didn’t pick up the syllabus or motor skills as scheduled, so I hired a new principal to “clean up the mess” for me. She’s experienced in this field, and I trust her capability in handling both children and teachers.
Needless to say, lots of children stopped when I first started because the parents were disappointed. So during the parent-teacher’s meeting we did in May, my principal promised to do some changes, and parents will slowly notice the difference and improvement.
We had done a few programs, like extra reading classes, music and movement, rhymes, poems, and the lessons should be conducted in activities based. That means the children are learning from the text books, but they don’t realise it because the teachers have to convert the lesson into activities or games, and children learn thru playing and fun. However, by the end, the activities have to reach their objectives and children will be able to recognise words and remember the texts taught.
Thus, I made my teachers do extra work. Before that they’re really “senang”, just teach from books. Now, I want them to do flashcards, and colour all the cards. Their lesson plans have to be submitted weekly and each activity has to be writen precisely and interestingly. I also spot-check on the children’s progress, and when I found that any child is leaving behind, I’ll get my principal to question the teachers.
So, my teachers are gumbling. They also complain behind my back that the previous principal was better. No need to do so much work. To them, I’m only paying them a couple of hundred ringgits, so why should they put so much effort and hardship in it? Frankly, I even let a few teachers go when I found that they’re not putting in their effort. There’s no point if the teachers want to “makan gaji buta”, and refuse to co-operate with my plans.
A lot of people think that it’s easy to be a kindergarden teacher. Actually, it’s hard. Most children come in without potty trained at home, extremely pampered, don’t know how to feed themselves, fight or yell when they can’t get their toys, and etc, so teachers have to be patient in guiding and training the children even simple motor skills, not only ABC and 123.
I’m sad if the teachers can’t see how important their work is in “shaping” the children. I know parents are responsible in bring up their own children too, but in our both-father-mother-working society, most parents don’t have time to do so. And they also think that once they leave the children at school, it’s the teachers’ responsibilities to do the work. *sigh*
My principal and I hope that our new plans will be carried out properly by all our teachers. Then, not only the children will benefit from the training process, teachers also learn new and effective ways in teaching, and I can spend less time at work, but more time with my Justin!
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Desperate Housewife

Desperate Housewife
I was praying hard last night that Justin’d go to sleep sharp at 9pm!!! Why? I wanted to watched Desperate Housewife’s special on Star World channel 70 yesterday. Luckily, Justin fell asleep after 9.15pm and I could get downstairs and watched TV. (Don’t worry, I had my baby monitor with me, so could run right up when he cried)
Oprah Winfrey starred as a housewife named Karen from Chicago, but moved to Wisteria Lane in a special debut and it’s funny! She also interviewed the casts and oh boy, the gardener boy looks so cute! His has beautiful eyes, and if my Justin can have those eyes, wow! But I don’t want my baby to be like his character as John, only the eyes will do! BTW, do you know that Bree’s house is actually a ladies room? I mean the house is fake, and if you open the door, you’ll see a toilet!
Then, I waited until 10.30pm to watch the first episode on Channel 18. It was good, but a lot had been censored. So no hot scene between John (gardener) and Gabrielle. And there’s a glimse of Felicity’s breastfeeding her baby girl at Mary Alice Young’s place after her funeral. How come I’ve never seen Asian movies with breastfeeding scene?
So, I think I’ll watch the same episode again next week on Star World, same day, but at 9pm. I hope the series on Star World will not be censored.
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Justin’s food

My hubby said Justin’s food sucks and looks ugly. I couldn’t agree more. This pic below shows a typical homemade baby food for Justin. It contains fine rice, smashed fish, chopped vege, and smashed potatoes. Doesn’t it look like some vomitted stuffs?
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If I’m feeding him fish, I have to make sure that he finishes as soon as possible. If not, the meal will sure be smelly when it’s cold. So I keep adding hot water into it, and in the end the porridge becomes watery and yucky! Sometimes I admire Justin’s “tolerance” in taking in solid food. He takes practically everything I or MIL prepare. But his food doesn’t look “presentable”. Or maybe all baby food looks like this?
I checked from some baby food recipes, and most of the food photos look yummy! Maybe it only looks good in photo, or I’ve prepared wrongly?
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Getting Fit Regimen

After being lazy and not exercising for more than 6 months, I’ve finally pick up myself and get back to exercise. Before today, my exercises only involve my fingers when blogging; mouth when eating & talking; legs when shopping; and….that’s it. No more.
I was slimmer before giving birth to Justin, and due to my high metabolism, I seldom put on weight, but can still enjoy food. However, I try my best to exercise for the sack of my health. After Justin’s arrival, I’ve been more occupied and full of excuses for not exercising.
So, from today onwards, I’m gonna get myself fitter, not just slimmer, but fitter, more flexible, and healthier.
Here’s my plan:
1. Continue breastfeed: I’ve done this “exercise” for 6 months, and have lost more than 10kg of my post-natal weight. This is the most effective, cheapest, and easier weight loss method God has created for man kind.
2. Yoga: Learnt for a few months before I got pregnant, but stopped because the instructor told me to. She was not trained for yoga for pregger, so advised me to stop. Today, I went back to her class after stopping for more than a year. I felt pain when stretching my flubby arms, and my legs were shaking like hell when I lifted them up. But I won’t give up!!!! With more practise, I’ll be enjoying the class in no time! (Have to motivate / bluff myself a bit, if not already cabut!)
3. Walking: This is easier. What I need to do is just carry Justin in my arms and walk outside the house in the evening. I can exercise while spending time with him, so can kill two birds with one stone.
4. Window shopping: Come on, this is also an exercise. You think it’s easy to walk for a few hours, choosing some nice clothes, getting to the fitting room, change and walk back to the shelf and place them back? No, you need thick skin and walking! Better still if I’m in Mid Valley or KLCC, can walk for at least 3 hours before I collapse, not because of walking, but because of feeling tempted to buy but no money to spend like no tomorrow!
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