Boy or Girl?
This is the question most frequently asked to me lately. Personally I don’t mind if I’m carrying a boy again, as long as he’s a healthy baby. But most people around me wish that I’m expecting a girl, since I already have Justin.
Hubby would like to have a baby girl this time. He doesn’t plan to have more babies soon, and he thinks it would be perfect to have a boy and a girl and then tutup kedai. Of coz, most men think that girls are more attached to daddy, he probably wants to feel how “teh” a daughter can be.
MIL wants to have a girl too. She has 4 sons without any daughter. Out of 5 grandchildren, only Xin Yi is a girl. If this coming baby is a boy, that means Xin Yi will be the one and only granddaughter, if none of her DIL plans to get pregnant again.
During my last check up, my gynae said this one could be a girl as he couldn’t see the birdie. Hubby was very excited and told almost everyone. But today, my gynae saw a tiny thing down there, but couldn’t be sure as it’s very small. I called hubby to tell him that this baby might be a boy, and thought he’d be disappointed. But I can’t tell from his voice, he only said we can’t decide on the name yet. Or maybe he’s hiding his disappointment?
Girl or boy, that’s nothing we can do about, it has already decided. Nonetheless, I know if she’s a girl, hubby will be thrilled. But if he’s a boy, I know both of us will also love him as much.
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November 28th, 2005 at 2:27 am
Actually, I really dislike doctors who just assumes that if they can’t see the birdie then it could be a girl. I’d rather they not say it until they’re really sure. Coz for both boy and girl, you can really see their genitals distinctly.
I know most people would wish to have a pair and then tutup kedai, unless they are planning to have more than 2. But either way, we just hope that the babies come out healty and there’s no complications with the birth… For your hubby, if really boy this time… get one more lor heheheh…
November 28th, 2005 at 2:30 am
that’s why they say “mummy’s boy” and “daddy’s girl” mah
don’t worry lah… boy or girl… as long he/she is healthy enough liao
November 28th, 2005 at 6:25 pm
Boy or girl doesn’t matter la as long as she or he is healthy, then it is good enough…..
November 28th, 2005 at 7:20 pm
hehe..My baby doesn’t show me gender yet..baby just too shy to show me on last 2 checkup ler..
my hubby wan a boy lor..have a ‘good’ word then close shop wor..
November 28th, 2005 at 10:19 pm
Ya, healthy baby is the utmost important…. U still so young, make no. 3 and no.4 as well lar…contribute to our Chinese society mah!!! hehehe
November 29th, 2005 at 1:19 am
I guess you have heard enough about healthy babies… all true by the way.
Myself, I also hope that my second one will be a girl, like your hubby but if not, then look on the bright side… everything can be recycled!!!
KA
P.S My wife is going to scold me for being so cheapo…
November 29th, 2005 at 2:08 am
Sue, I didn’t ask him to reveal the gender, but he just popped about it even if he’s unsure. Agreed that a healthy baby is more important, I kept telling myself that too.
Egghead, so you also want a baby girl to accompany Luke????
MLC, welcome to my blog. Yes, healthy baby is more than enough.
Msau, yours very shy leh? Have you thought of having a surprise baby without knowing the gender? I thought of that, but hubby kept asking…
Annie, wah, that kind of contribution needs lots of $$$$. I like to have more kids too, but really scare if I can afford their living expenses as they grow older.
Ka, recycle??? I have no problems having gay, lesbian, or transexsual friends. But my own kids… I’m not so sure how I’ll accept it. Better have “original” product lah…
December 1st, 2005 at 11:29 pm
but as long as they are perfectly healthy babies, boy or girl also nevermind for me.
December 4th, 2005 at 8:23 pm
As long as baby is healthy, boy or girl also mommy & daddy lovely baby.