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Bumbo Chair


After collecting dust for months in the store room, this expensive little Bumbo had finally been put to good use, as sat by my Isabelle.


After Justin koh-koh saw his mei mei sitting on it, he wanted to have a go. To my wonder, this chair which used to be too small for him fit him perfectly well. His butt definitely got smaller as he’s grown bigger. Luckily, he didn’t insist on sitting on it for too long, and gave it back to mei mei. Good boy…

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I Love You

When hubby and I were dating 7 years ago, we used to say I Love You to each other whenever we hanged up the phone, saying goodbye, before bedtime or on special occasions. But both of us have not been using these 3 magic words after my boy came along.

I think we are probably so tied up with things and our passion for each other has grown into a sense of belonging as a family, and mussy words like that have also disappeared as time flies. I wonder if any average M’sian couple use these words as often as ang mo gao or not? Those westerners are really more expressive than Asians, as we’re more conservative and tend to keep our feelings to ourselves.

I’ve been singing this I Love You song from Barney everyday as Justin likes to listen to it over and over again. I’ve been teaching him how to say I Love You to me and hubby, but he’s not saying it unless I remind him every now and then. I’d like him to be more expressive like ang mo, and not shy in expressing his feelings. He likes to hug and kiss us but he doesn’t say the magic words. Maybe hubby and I didn’t set a good role model of saying those words between ourselves in front of him.

By the way, saying too much of the words is also too geli for us as we live in an extended family. Even if my boy will say it now, I doubt he’ll do it after a few years. His cousins might be laughing at him! Then, when he’s brave enough to say it again will be the time when he’s having his puppy love! LOL!

So, I better say I Love You to my hubby tonight when he gets back from KL. See if he has goosebumps or not!

Old Man

Justin has a periodically theme where he likes certain things or characters which he’ll choose his books or Barney CDs according to his likings. This week, he’s very much into “Old Man” theme. His selection includes:

1. Santa Clause: He’s a man with white moustache and beard, and I accidentally said he’s an old man. So, since then, Justin likes this Santa Clause’s book titled “The Night Before Christmas”.

2. Peter & Jane book 8A: There’s this page with Peter dressing up like a Santa, no wonder he likes to look at the picture over and over again.

3. This rhyme: “It’s raining, it’s pouring. The old man is snoring. He went to bed and bumped his head, and couldn’t get up in the morning.” I’m a bit sick of repeating this rhyme over and over again for days already. I wonder when he’ll change his theme.

4. Chinese poem “老公公, 七十岁; 请您坐下来, 让我帮您捶锤背”.

5. Any pictures which shows old man!

However, he’s very afraid of real old man whom are stranger to him. When he’s younger, he’d cry if those old man at coffee shop looked at him. Now, he’ll say he’s “pak pak” when he sees an old man approaching our table when he’s serving our orders. So, it’s only old man in books that he likes, not in real.

Animals Association

Nowadays, Justin likes to take out his animal book and flip thru the pages by himself. I’ll ask him some questions or tell him the names of the animals if he can’t remember them.

Mommy: Justin, this is skunk. It’ll poot poot fart fart, so it’s smelly.

Justin: Poot poot…*Smile* Skung…Poot poot…*Giggling*

Mommy: This is meerkat…

Justin: Shame shame…*giggling*

Mommmy: Huh? Shame shame? Meerkat shame shame? Why?

Justin: Mikat shame shame *giggling*…

Mommy: You mean meerkat not wearing clothes?

Justin: Yeah, shame shame…

That meerkat was standing up, and it looks like “human” to him, so have to put on clothes gua…

Mommy: What’s this?

Justin: Owl! Owl! Eyes!

Mommy: Yes, eyes.

Jusitn: Eyes! Big big! Owl…

Mommy: Yes, owl has big eyes.

Justin: Pak pak…

Mommy: Don’t worry, it won’t hurt you. Owl eats mouse.

Justin: Owl owl….*Went to take his Winnie the Pooh book, and pointed the owl*

Mommy: Yes boy, another owl…

Mommy: What’s this boy?

Justin: Rila (It’s gorrila) Pa pa, rila.

Mommy: You mean papa act like gorrila?

Justin: *Nodding* Rila, pa pa…

Hubby likes to act like a gorilla to please Justin, and he’ll also try to immitate daddy’s gorrila impersonation.

Scared of Toys

I buy books for Justin most of the time, but seldom buy toys. Why? He’s afraid of most of the toys in the market! It’s true, and I have no idea why.

We went toy shopping yesterday, and we let him chose his toys. As usual, he wanted to buy balls, and we took 2 footballs for him (worldcup fever’s not over yet!). Then, the promoter started showing us a new helicopter which moved around on the floor and will turn direction if it hit an object. My little boy was so afraid of it, he refused to come down from hubby’s arms. Then, she suggested buying a battery-operated bicycle which moved around too. Again, Justin said “pak pak” and patting his chest telling us he’s afraid of it. So, these two are not a good choice.

We went upstairs to look for more toys. Found a boat, and we decided to buy him one. However, Justin said he wanted to have an owl. But we couldn’t find any, not even a stuff toy. BTW, has anyone seen an owl toy or T-shirt printed with owl from Winnie the Pooh? I can’t seems to find one.

Ok, back to toy shopping. We saw some battery-operated animals / insects like crocodile, horse, bird, ladybird & etc, and hubby decided to get a toy horse for him to train up Justin’s “tam leong”. We also got a mini helicopter too.

When we got back, we played with the helicopter first. Well, he was not afraid of it, but that thing spoilt after falling to the ground for a few times. Really low quality!

As for the horse, Justin was so afraid of it, he asked us to keep it away! He kept saying “No no, keep keep….” while the horsey’s running around on the floor. So much for training him up! But maybe he’ll accept it after a few days, see how.

He doesn’t like to play with toys that move around. So, most of his toys become Li Wei’s toys. He likes toys like the cutting set, masak masak, shape sorters, stacking rings / cups, doctor set, handphone and his mini laptop. Of coz, if we buy him more Barney toys, he’ll be thrilled.

Isabelle: 3 months old

Weight: 5.79kg

1. Trying to turn over, but only until facing down. She doesn’t know how to use her arms to help her turn further yet.
2. Cooing, smiling, and ga ga most of the time when she’s alert.
3. Sucking her fists to sleep.
4. Doesn’t like to lie down, but prefer us to carry her sitting upright.
5. Turning her head to TV!!! Too bad Barney influence from Justin…
6. She’s slowing getting into reverse nursing, which means she nurses 2 hourly after midnight!!! There goes mommy’s already-previous moments of sleep.
7. Likes to look at her Sesame Street mobile and mini gym. She’s trying to bat the stuff toys sometimes, but still not well coordinated.
8. Trying to grab her feet.
9. If she gets hold of something like rattle, she manages to hold it for a few seconds before dropping it.
10. She starts to look at pictures or listen to our reading when we read to Justin.

Daughter is Better than Son?

Lately, I heard lots of elderly folks told me that it’s better to have daughters than sons as opposed to chinese tradition of having sons as the bearers of the surnames. Why?

Most of them (including my mum!!!) said that daughters will still be “attached” to the family, even if they’ve got married. Most daughters will still visit their parents whenever possible, and take care of their parents. Not that sons don’t do that, but there’re an increasing number of sons who rather listen to their wives, and not “obeying” their parents anymore.

Mmmm…it’s like the old mother-in-laws vs daughters-in-laws fight huh? When a son got married and started “listening” to his wife, or moving out, the battle of grabbing his attention begins between the two most important women of his life.

Well, I have to admit that my bother really changed when he started dating his wife. If we mistakenly joked about her, he’ll fume with frame! Let alone now that he’s married and expecting their first baby. My mum and I have to watch our months (we used to joke a lot) when we talk about her.

Since she has morning sickness, she stopped visiting my parents for months, claiming that the journey from Batu Ferringhi to Prai is too far and dizzy for her. So, my mum has to travel to see them. She doesn’t mind much as my dad is very free during weekends, and they can go “pak toh” after visiting my brother. Luckily, my mum is considerate, if not, she will like be a character in some soap opera cursing her DIL like crazy! Too bad our ke poh neighbours have bad mouths, keep saying my mum is “losing” her son to DIL as they don’t see my brother and DIL coming back home often. So “pak po”!

Now, my mum said daughter is good as I’m still visiting them whenever possible, and she doesn’t feel like losing me after I got married for so long. So, I joked to her that why didn’t she give birth to more daughters last time? Then she won’t be so lonely. Ha!

Well, I think sons and daughters are the same. It’s all depends on individual characters. Hubby’s still respecting his parents and definitely not the type that listens to me only (what a pity huh?). He chooses to be reasonable whenever possible, but not siding to any party. Thank god! So, if my MIL said anything bad about me, if any, he can still use his BRAIN!!! But I’m glad that I have a very open-minded MIL who’s very considerate too.

I have Justin and Isabelle. I have no idea how they’ll be when they’re old enough to have their life partners, whether they’ll “ditch” us, or “stick” to us. My responsibilities now are to raise them, nurture them with as much love as we can offer, and provide them guidance in life. For the rest, hubby and I can’t control much. Let’s see what happens 20 years later, and if daughter is better than son, or son is better than daughter. But I hope I DON’T HAVE TO COMPARE!

Justin: 19 months old

I didn’t measure his height and weight regularly, so I have no idea what’s the measurements. But at this stage, Justin has begun to show his characters.


He likes to dress up nicely when we’re going out. I think he got his trait from me as mommy is very “oi leng”. Most of the time, he’ll choose the clothes he prefers to wear. I’ll try my best to respect his choices, but when the colours he chose are too ridiculous, I’ll advice him to pick another one. He’ll listen to me most of the time, but there were times when I have to go out with a toddler who’s wearing a mismatched T-shirt and shorts. His favourite T-shirt at the moment is Barney’s T which I bought during Barney’s roadshow in Ipoh. He’s getting bigger and the T is a bit too tight for him. However, he still insists on wearing it if he finds it in the drawer.

He likes Barney a lot. Despite having more than 10 Barney vcds, he can remember the songs or scenes from each cd. But I only allow him to watch twice a day as I’m afraid that he’ll be a TV addict, or my maid uses TV as babysitter. He likes to play those Barney products at the toy section, but I only got him a Barney stuff toy and the plate and cup. Too bad it’s impossible to get Barney’s clothes line here.

He’s good at imitating now. However, he has also picked up some bad habits. The worst one is he likes to spit when he’s told not to do something. I have to correct him on the spot whenever I see it. Even if he knows I hate it, but still does it occasionally. *Sigh* Maybe he knows that irritates me.

He doesn’t take much milk lately, and can go to sleep without having his night feed. Even if he takes milk in the morning, he only takes less than 5 oz. However, he eats a lot. My house is full of junk food, and it’s impossible for me to prohibit him from taking them. So, as long as he’s taking his proper meals well, I let him have some snack after meals.

He likes books, and hubby and I take the effort to read to him whenever he asks, if it’s possible. I don’t force him to learn the letters or numbers, I prefer him treating books as a passion or hobby. It’s totally different from my work nature where we believe children should be taught words from young. I’m not teaching Justin that way, so I wonder how he’ll be when he grows up.

As for language skills, he’s still trying to form sentences. Sometimes, he speaks a strings of sound and I just can’t get what he’s trying to say. It’s a guessing game between us, and he’ll act out if I’m still clueless. He knows how to name most objects around him, or pictures he sees in books, but still can’t form sentences. Well, maybe boys are slower in speech.

He doesn’t like puzzles, but will kacau his cousins when he sees them playing. He still doens’t have the motor skill to join the pieces together, so I decided to keep them away, and introduce puzzles again when he’s ready.

He’s always full of energy. He’ll run and play outside the house every morning and evening. I’ve just started to teach him to do some gardening where we plant some sunflowers and cucumber. He likes watering the plants, looking for snails, and flipping through the leaves to look at the insects he can find. He’s getting more observant, and remember most flowers and insects’ names I told him about.

He’s a loving little boy. He likes to kiss and hugs people, especially to Isabelle. He maybe young, but he knows how to be careful not to hurt mei mei when they’re lying down side by side during bedtime or playing together. But I still separates them after they’ve fallen asleep, if not, I’ll be watching over them overnight! Until now, he still not showing too much jealousy over mei mei, maybe she’s still young and doesn’t play with his stuffs yet. Dunno how he’ll react when Isabelle’s getting older?

There’s so much to write about him, and I think the post can go on and on….

Tandem Stroller Maybe?

Justin’s stroller was a gift from my best friend. He seldom uses it as we prefer to carry him with a sling, and when he’s older, we like to tell him what he sees so it’s easier to carry him to maintain the same eye level than leaving him sitting on his stroller. Needless to say, we hardly use it. Luckily it’s a gift, and it’s free!

With Isabelle’s arrival, Justin’s evening routine has a new activity. I’ll place Isabelle in the stroller and Justin likes pushing his mei mei round and round until she’s asleep or cries. It always seems sweet to me when he pushes the stroller and kisses Isabelle’s forehead every now and then.

But this evening, he decided to join in the fun. He asked me to lie Isabelle and him together in the stroller. Even if I tried my best to explain to him that it’s too small for both of them, he still insisted that he and mei mei squeezed together for a ride.

So, here’s Justin trying his best to squeeze in the stroller…

Poor Isabelle’s wailing because she’s too cramped in the limited space…

Luckily, Justin gave up finally when I told him that I might ask daddy to buy a bigger stroller. Gee, I’m still thinking whether it’s worth it to buy a tandem stroller?

Dream Talking

Tell me if dream talking runs in the family, except baby Isabelle, all of us talk in our sleeps.

Hubby’s Case
I’m a light sleeper, so I’ll wake up with the slightest sound. One night, I heard clappings sound, and woke up finding hubby’s clapping hands in his sleep, smiling and mumbling. I woke him up and he has no idea what I was talking about!!!

My Case
During my second confinement, hubby told me that I said this in my sleep one morning:
“Kakak, tolong saya cuci and panaskan pump ini, nanti saya nak guna…”
He said I was giving my instruction loud and clear.

Justin’s case
1. He cried and called Papa or Mama as if he’s having nightmares occasionally.
2. One night, he stood right up, and did a dance movement from Barney clips, then fell back asleep again. I was breastfeeding Isabelle, and I got shock seeing him doing that!!!
3. Just now, I heard him shouting for “kakak” over the baby monitor. I went to the room, but he’s sound asleep.