Whenever hubby’s not around, I’ll be tugging in the kids all by myself. My maid will help me to change one of them into pajamas, then she’ll wait for me to “kao tim” myself first before leaving the room. After playing or reading for a while, we’ll all lie down on the bed.

Justin will normally lie down while waiting for me to put Isabelle to sleep first. Then, we’ve have our quality quiet time where we’ll read his Big Barney book, play some puzzle, or just “talk”. We can have some simple conversation now, like what we saw at the zoo, what did he play when I’m not around, or I’ll give him a massage.

I got to say that he really get less attention from me after Isabelle comes along, but I learn fact that I won’t be loving anyone of them less, even if they don’t have me 100%. So, I’ll split my time to spend individual quality time with them.

Isabelle is still very young for moments like this, but breastfeeding helps a lot in creating one to one bonding session between me and her. I like reading to her too, but she’s more interested in biting and tearing the books! LOL!

Well, for the time being, I’m not planning of having #3 as I’m not sure if I can manage everything well. Hopefully, no accident happens!

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She looks so frustratingly cute in that Chloe cardigan. Grab a share of his attention with your own secret Wonderbra.,,