A blog for Justin and Isabelle

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August 4th, 2008 by shoppingmum

My kids will hit ants and mosquitoes when they see any in the house. But for spiders, they won’t do so. Why? They watched one of the sequence of Babe where a spider helped to save Babe from being cooked by the farmer and they think that spiders are good “animals”. So you can’t find any spider traps in our house!

Besides that, I told them spiders make cobweb to trap mosquitoes and other insects, so they are not bitten by them. Since then, Justin and Isabelle like looking at spider, and they tend to look for cobweb anywhere they go. LOL!

At the same time, I told them that some spiders are dangerous, so they better don’t touch any spider. BTW, I’m not afraid of spider, do you?

August 4th, 2008 by shoppingmum

I took this photo this morning, and I like it a lot.

ZZzz…on the way to school…

My kids, like most kids, can be as sweet as angels or naughty to the extend of pulling my hairs off. Yesterday, Justin made a fuss at the temple when I brought our new car for prayers. It’s a norm in Thailand to do so, and SIL suggested that we do the same.

Justin wanted to visit one of the temples where cremation ashes are placed, but considering that it’s the 7th month of the Chinese calendar, I’m a bit pantang. I brought him and Isabelle for a walk just near the building, and those photos of dead people really creep me. Sorry, you can call me coward, but in this month, I will try my best to stay away ok?

However, Justin was not satisfied. He still wanted to see more and kept asking me to walk over to the other side. Just imagine me carrying a 12kg Isabelle in my arm, holding Justin in another hand and walking under the hot sun at 12pm. I kept telling him it’s not a place to go, and we already visited some part of it. But he insisted. He kept crying and screaming and pulling me away. He cried and cried until the monk also looked at us liao. Sigh…

I brought him back to the car as I know that he’s tired. But what do you know, he vomited! He has this tendency of vomiting if he cries too much, and luckily I managed to hold the mess with a small towel and my hands. Gosh, hubby’s new car was almost gone. I could see hubby’s angry face in my mind and how Justin is going to be scolded if he messed up the car!

But the monk was great. He comforted Justin in Thai, and asked us to kneel for prayers. Funnily, Justin stopped and only weeped. He gave the kids some pasteurized milk and snacks too. Right after we got in the car, I tried to talk to Justin again about the reason he’s not allowed to go in there. But he insisted that he had done no wrong, even if I told him he’s not allowed to scream at temples. After that, I beh tahan and scolded him as my patience level was over the limit!!!! I think I scared him, SIL and also Isabelle in the car. :P However, he fell asleep a moment later.

I’m glad that the monk is very considerate. He told SIL that Justin must be tired and thus he’s cranky. Thank god he didn’t lecture my noisy boy at the temple.

After a nap, Justin was feeling better and he’s my sweet little boy again. After some hard time with him, I realized that he can be very determined now. Reasoning with him might not work anymore so I wonder if I should just let him try things out by himself and learn about the consequence? I can’t stress myself out like this all the time, if not I will need more that best acne treatment and anti wrinkle cream for ME.

July 29th, 2008 by shoppingmum

This is going to be a boring and lengthy post. So if you are too busy to go on, just skip to the next post with lots of pics.

Lots of my friends and relatives are asking the same question these days, why are we sending Justin and Isabelle to Thai school which is totally alien to them, considering that they can’t speak Thai. I want to make it clear that we have thought about this for some time, especially after lots of school hunting on our previous trips.

We visited as many preschools as possible, ranging from Thai Bilingual (with Thai and English syllabus) and International schools (only British or American syllabus and one Thai culture). We have long term plan to build our business here in Bangkok, and there’s no turning back. We invested most of our money here, so we really hope to see a better future. To survive in Bangkok, we need to speak Thai. Hubby can speak simple Thai but me, I just can’t. I understand some words, but not in full sentences. My kids can’t learn much because they still speak in English, so that’s the main reason why they are going to a Thai preschool now. We could just choose a bilingual school, but it’s not near our office. We have to think about traffic jam and time used for traveling, so the nearest school is the best. It has only Thai syllabus, and 90% of teachers and students speak pure Thai!

Besides that, this school is much cheaper. If you are wondering how much you have to pay for international schools, check this, this and this. Besides that, Isabelle is too young for most of the international schools. We really don’t want to separate them now as it’s pretty stressful for kids to start all over in a foreign land.

I guess both Justin and Isabelle have no choice but to learn the language. A year later, I think they can speak well as kids learn faster than adults. Justin said he doesn’t know what’s the teacher teaching everyday, except for English lesson. We pay for extra English class with an American teacher, so he teaches him 4 days a week. I know that he won’t be able to learn much until he masters Thai, but we cannot be kiasu. The main priority is learning Thai language, so we have to “let go” of other aspects first, and he can still pick up the subjects at elementary in international school later.

I bought lots of books from Kumon and other publishers. I thought that I can start some home schooling, but Justin is too tired to do so when we get home. We are only busier in the late evening, so we go home rather late. After dinner, the kids are exhausted, so how to learn more? On weekends, we prefer to bring them around to see REAL things than going for extra classes. They are still very young, so let them have a break first. Maybe they will learn science by digging the worms in our garden, taking care of their turtles or watering their bean plants (I didn’t blog about it). Maybe they will learn maths by helping me washing the potatoes or getting their jelly beans. Maybe they will learn about English grammar by just speaking to us. Maybe they will learn Chinese by watching some movies or speaking to their “half bucket” parents. LOL! All I know is, we cannot compare how much they learn based on academic anymore.

I am not too concern about Isabelle as she’s very young. She only cried 2 days for a short while at school and she’s ok now. She makes excuses like “I want to go to office now” every morning when we send her to school, but she’s alright when I pass her over to her teacher. She wet her pants for the first 3 days because the teachers couldn’t understand what she’s trying to say by “I want to pee pee”. Pee is ssh in Thai. But now they know. LOL!

Both of them like school and I can see their happy faces when I pick them up. We know that our kids cannot be learning as much as most kids in Malaysia and we are very lenient in their education. But again, we cannot be kiasu as they are growing up in a different environment now.

So, now you understand? :)

July 21st, 2008 by shoppingmum

We came across some pretty birthday cakes at one of the bakery shops a few weeks ago, and both my kids told me that they wanted to order those cakes on their birthdays. Isabelle preferred the one with Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs cake decoration, while Justin chose the one with Mickey Mouse. It would be nice if we can organize a birthday party for them too instead of celebrating their birthdays among ourselves.

I seldom organize parties for my children because I don’t like to do the cleaning up later when the parties are over. Nonetheless, if the party can be held on a weekend getaway or an outdoor picnic, I might give it a serious thought. There are various party ideas from celebrations.com, and if you are planning for a party, check out the website. My little girl will definitely love to have a princess birthday party. She will be thrilled to dress up like a princess and have all those pretty princess decor in pink and purple! On the other hand, Justin would prefer a farm party. He likes everything about the farm, and even if he already had a farm birthday cake last year, I think he will still want another one next time.

If you can afford it, just let the party planners plan your party for you. But for an ordinary parent like me, if I would to hold a party, I will do it by myself. Nonetheless, someone will have to clean up the mess for me when the party is over!

July 12th, 2008 by shoppingmum

Our home is more like a hostel and a kitchen to us. We only spend time in it in the late evening and leave the house as soon as we get ready in the morning. We hardly stay at home on Sundays because I didn’t want to cook we want to bring the kids around.

Today, I stay at home with the kids. We are asked not to bring the kids to the office because they are moving to the new office floor and it’s going to be dusty and busy for everyone. It’s best that my kids stay at home watching Tom and Jerry over and over again. LOL!

It’s kind of nice staying in the house to be lazy for a day. Of course, the kitchen is still as busy as ever because hubby prefers home cook meals and my kids “order” this and that. :P The cook aka me cannot rest on Saturdays!

But thank god I can “sneak out” blogging for a while. I almost can’t remember that I used to be a stay at home mother for so long. However, I haven’t watched the idiot box yet. We can only use the internet connection or the satellite TV since it belongs to the same system. Funny wan, even HDMI splitter won’t work for the line.

But once I have more time at home, I will watch the Thai series. That should be an easier way to learn Thai.

July 3rd, 2008 by shoppingmum

I can’t give my kids full attention all the time. Sometimes, I really hope that they have grown older and can be more independent. But when I see how good they are trying to do their stuffs and give me a few minutes of “freedom from motherhood”, I felt so blessed having them as my kids…


Scribbling on the office floor…

 

 
I can do this by myself…

 

They have changed a bit since we moved here. They are not only more independent now, but they are so understanding. They know that papa and mommy are busy sometimes, but that doesn’t mean that we are “ignoring” them.

Kids, papa and mommy are proud of you. You kids are the greatest. :)

June 26th, 2008 by shoppingmum

As I mentioned before, my kids will either glue to me at the office or mess around disturbing other office staffs. We’ve tried reading, writing with Justin, and also let them learn with Starfall with our laptops. But like most kids, it will be a miracle if they can “sit still” for 15 minutes. Thus, food bribery comes in now.

I know it’s bad to feed them junks, but as you know, junks are pretty common in the office. If we don’t buy any, BIL will also get some. The worst is hubby. He cannot survive without his junkie booster in the afternoon. He will fall asleep without biting those junks!

But I still want to control their junkie intake, thus they can only have a certain amount a day. Both Justin and Isabelle are pretty obedient so far, and they will even hold their junks in their hands and wait for my instruction to eat. LOL!


Mommy said can only eat after my nap

When they are eating, we will have a few minutes of quiet time and it’s best to get things done!

Besides that, they have a playmate at the office too. It’s not their 5-month-old cousin, but a turtle. The turtle was placed there for feng shui purpose, but my kids treat it like a pet.


There goes my afternoon nap…these kids just won’t leave me alone!

 


Having afternoon tea (fruits) with “their” turtle

 

 


I play with you ok?

Other than them taking their 2 hours nap, I’m glad that we have something to keep them occupied. At least hubby can work without disturbance and the office is QUIET!

Edited:

Bad news, my kids can’t play with the turtle anymore. It has feng shui purpose so it cannot “leave” its place. Besides that, Thai people believe that we can’t play with turtles, not good wan woh…

Aiyo, mommy has to think of something liao…

June 25th, 2008 by shoppingmum

This morning, my SIL said I looked like a supermom. LOL! I laughed like hell as this “title” is too big for my head. :P

I am busier than I used to be in Ipoh, but I didn’t do a good job for the first 2 days. I rant about my kids, I was easily frustrated and I yelled like a freaking mother in the car and scared the hell of my children. I was not ME at all. Gosh, I felt so bad thinking about what I did.

But for the past few days, I felt better and can even sleep until 7am or later. My cooking speed is faster and I plan the meals a day ahead. I manage get things ready faster than I thought and I can even knit while watching series at night!!! Shiok man…Ya, I got more efficient now.

However, there’s another thing to settle….I can’t seem to do a lot at the office because my kids stick to me like glue. They want me to play, read, feed, clean their butts and etc. You know? Those things mothers, maids, nannies and etc do at home? But the location changed!

In conclusion, that’s the thing I’m working on now…..juggling office life and my kids!

Maybe things will get better when the new office floor is ready. My kids will have a room for themselves, and we will get kiddie tables and chairs for them. Of course, there will be lots of toys and books and they can have a bigger mattress for afternoon nap. When they are ready, we will enroll them into a Thai preschool, and they will only be back to the office after 2.

Mmm….hopefully, our plan works well.

June 22nd, 2008 by shoppingmum

I think I cook all day. LOL! In the morning, it’s about fixing my kids’ lunch to be taken to the office. Then once we reach home from work, it’s preparing dinner in turbo speed again. Before I go to bed, I might defrost some meat or prepare the porridge with slow cooker. Sipeh busy in the kitchen only. LOL!

But by the end of the day, I get my little reward from Justin who will say this…

Mommy, thanks for cooking for me and mei mei.

Enough liao. That’s good enough to be so busy in the kitchen.

June 17th, 2008 by shoppingmum

I am really stressed out. I yell more often than usual, especially at the office. My kids are driving me nuts even if I have been telling them not to be too noisy and mess things around. But still, they are doing so!

Then again, I realized that they are having a hard time getting used to the new house, new language, new lives, new routine and they don’t even have their kids room at the office yet. It’s still under renovation, so they couldn’t take naps for days. We were pretty busy bring them around everywhere we went so they couldn’t get a proper meal or rest sometimes.

But this morning, I woke up at 5.30am. I prepared fish and carrot porridge for them as lunch, and I prepared some dishes for dinner. At least I don’t have to rush at 7pm and trying to get dinner ready in less than an hour. Can siao wan la….

They have been behaving well today. They took lunch, snack, did their work and even took a nap.

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Sleeping on the office floor. That’s their cousin.

Sorry ya kids? Mummy really doesn’t have much patience lately, but I will change ok?